Comments on: Till death do us part — 2 — small chances, big changes http://www.wisemandarine.com/till-death-do-us-part-2-small-chances-big-changes/ none the wiser Thu, 20 Nov 2008 16:25:23 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.2.2 By: mandarine » Blog Archive » On fidelity and other trifles http://www.wisemandarine.com/till-death-do-us-part-2-small-chances-big-changes/#comment-2281 mandarine » Blog Archive » On fidelity and other trifles Mon, 17 Sep 2007 18:17:17 +0000 http://www.wisemandarine.com/till-death-do-us-part-2-small-chances-big-changes/#comment-2281 [...] is a grown-up thing, and love can carry us over the dangerous ford of our naive and immature years (we met when we were 17 and 18), until we grow up together some more; but it can also make us so blind and [...] […] is a grown-up thing, and love can carry us over the dangerous ford of our naive and immature years (we met when we were 17 and 18), until we grow up together some more; but it can also make us so blind and […]

]]> By: mandarine » Blog Archive » Till death do us part — 1 — the first decade of forever http://www.wisemandarine.com/till-death-do-us-part-2-small-chances-big-changes/#comment-2278 mandarine » Blog Archive » Till death do us part — 1 — the first decade of forever Mon, 17 Sep 2007 18:16:10 +0000 http://www.wisemandarine.com/till-death-do-us-part-2-small-chances-big-changes/#comment-2278 [...] death do us part — 1 — the first decade of forever Till death do us part — 2 — small chances, big changes Till death do us part — 3 — on fidelity and other trifles Till death do us part — [...] […] death do us part — 1 — the first decade of forever Till death do us part — 2 — small chances, big changes Till death do us part — 3 — on fidelity and other trifles Till death do us part — […]

]]> By: bloglily http://www.wisemandarine.com/till-death-do-us-part-2-small-chances-big-changes/#comment-107 bloglily Sat, 14 Oct 2006 05:54:36 +0000 http://www.wisemandarine.com/till-death-do-us-part-2-small-chances-big-changes/#comment-107 I too so enjoyed this post -- I liked hearing about the what if -- the role chance and self -determination play in choosing a mate. (Oh, and I'm with Emily, I have no idea how to use a feedreader. I like clicking on my links and being surprised. But that's probably just an excuse to avoid figuring something else out.) I too so enjoyed this post — I liked hearing about the what if — the role chance and self -determination play in choosing a mate. (Oh, and I’m with Emily, I have no idea how to use a feedreader. I like clicking on my links and being surprised. But that’s probably just an excuse to avoid figuring something else out.)

]]> By: mandarine http://www.wisemandarine.com/till-death-do-us-part-2-small-chances-big-changes/#comment-106 mandarine Fri, 13 Oct 2006 04:53:53 +0000 http://www.wisemandarine.com/till-death-do-us-part-2-small-chances-big-changes/#comment-106 Litlove: although it means more responsibility, I believe there is no such thing as destiny. There are a lot of choices where you do not have one, really (personal history, background, etc.), but in that particular case, I believe it was entirely up to me (well, in fact, us) to choose. Emily: do you know there are nice little software elves called <a href="https://addons.mozilla.org/firefox/77/" rel="nofollow">feedreaders</a>, who do the job of regularly checking for you ? Once you have <a href="http://emilybarton.blogspot.com/2006/09/ive-found-math.html" rel="nofollow">found math</a>, finding software should be the easy part ! (sorry, just kidding). Thanks for the compliment, and thanks for having pushed this installment up my priority list: it felt so good writing it ! Litlove: although it means more responsibility, I believe there is no such thing as destiny. There are a lot of choices where you do not have one, really (personal history, background, etc.), but in that particular case, I believe it was entirely up to me (well, in fact, us) to choose.

Emily: do you know there are nice little software elves called feedreaders, who do the job of regularly checking for you ? Once you have found math, finding software should be the easy part ! (sorry, just kidding). Thanks for the compliment, and thanks for having pushed this installment up my priority list: it felt so good writing it !

]]> By: emilybarton http://www.wisemandarine.com/till-death-do-us-part-2-small-chances-big-changes/#comment-105 emilybarton Fri, 13 Oct 2006 01:59:41 +0000 http://www.wisemandarine.com/till-death-do-us-part-2-small-chances-big-changes/#comment-105 I knew if I waited a few days, instead of constantly checking, I'd finally get the next installment, sort of like waiting for the right person to come along. What a great story. I'm convinced "Mr. or Ms. Right" is almost always someone with whom we never are trying too hard (I love your description of her belonging to the "static backdrop") and with whom we never do have to try too hard. I knew if I waited a few days, instead of constantly checking, I’d finally get the next installment, sort of like waiting for the right person to come along. What a great story. I’m convinced “Mr. or Ms. Right” is almost always someone with whom we never are trying too hard (I love your description of her belonging to the “static backdrop”) and with whom we never do have to try too hard.

]]> By: litlove http://www.wisemandarine.com/till-death-do-us-part-2-small-chances-big-changes/#comment-104 litlove Wed, 11 Oct 2006 07:13:56 +0000 http://www.wisemandarine.com/till-death-do-us-part-2-small-chances-big-changes/#comment-104 Lovely story, Mandarine. What if, indeed? But does that make you feel that the hand of destiny exists? Or more sure than ever that we create our own fate? Lovely story, Mandarine. What if, indeed? But does that make you feel that the hand of destiny exists? Or more sure than ever that we create our own fate?

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